After 15 months I decided to get back onto the dating wagon. (Yeah last I got laid was 15 months ago…)
Met a guy on Instagram and we decided to meet for coffee in the afternoon (trapped at home at nights with narc mom). We met at Starbucks. As soon as he sat down he was all anxious because he parked his car in a no parking zone ( I mean why do that??) So I suggested we go some place else. From his driving I could make out he was nervous. He kept bumping into people. Then he just kept driving talking about random stuff. When I’m nervous I also talk too much. After a while I asked him if we should stop somewhere, you know talking is always better than driving. He was like I’m not hungry. Let’s drive. I was like okay. Actually I wanted him to stop driving because I get car sick but I didn’t say it. Now all this was bearable. But then he starts talking about his dating adventures. How many women he met. What all he did. TMI. And he also said I like meeting girls close to my home. I don’t like driving so far in this hot sun. There was this girl who lived near my house and then he started giving me the details ……. Later at night we what’s app me to say you didn’t wear my favourite top I’m very upset about it ?? Honestly I don’t remember him asking me to wear any top?
I’ve never done the dating scene. In college I fell in love with the guy ( I guess he too had some behaviour issues). My question is I get hassled by dating and I’m very quick to diminish their behaviour and tick them off my list.
Is this behaviour okay?
Should I go out on a second date with him?
Should I wear what he tells me to ?